tompkins square park

tompkins square park

fall leaves trickle down 

tickle of autumn peers around the corner, a sun about to set

a reminder constant in sniffled noses

denim jacket season for mild-mannered libras 

in an idealist’s mind, fall is a new york favorite

fiery flames of yellow and red envelope any bruised soul


i step on and over rotting brown elm and pigeon droppings  

a hint of fresh piss and day-old trash, sewer mice lunch, wafts through my brain 


10 steps ahead of me, i see him. 

gazing at her.

his eyes skim around slyly, slowly 

as if no one should notice,

because no one will.

no one usually does -

it’s tompkins square park.


a late horsefly buzzes the distance between us, connecting us to one another

as if saying, sorry i’m late to the party, i simply forgot summer is over


she holds a steady downward dog

he leans against the chain-link fence, rusted to perfection

one arm up, casual 

chin tucked under, eyes wide

tickets he won from a lottery, front row

to a show she didn’t know she was performing.

scrutinized under his invisible spotlight

he studies her every move.

and i, play my role in this dance, in silence.


on any other thursday afternoon, perhaps no one would see him

and he might get his usual show

private, in public

unknowing heads bobbing around him, zipping to their next destination

coffee at stumptown, bagels before they’re bagged,

always somewhere to be


he stands there watching her, clutching his precious tickets,

new york magic.


but on this thursday afternoon,

he’s caught my attention,

he’s my show

today, i walk towards him.


i stand next to him, in silence

just like he is

lean my arm on the fence

just like he is

and my eyes wander

just like he is


i grimace, the germaphobe in me.

and i wait. 

i wait for him. 

he catches my eye. 

winter’s last breath, came early


for half a second, he returns the favor

no, of course he was not

staring at her body 

objectifying her curves 

imagining himself in her

of course not - she’s only 

living her life

doing yoga

in a park

during a pandemic

when public space is sacred

why would he ever do such a thing? 


but it’s tompkins square park

anything goes. right? 


she presses firmly against patchy grass

and i am her guard dog

eyes on my target

steaming with simmering resentment


he walks away

and i sigh 


another man who is armed

by the heavy, bulletproof armor of the patriarchy 

a proven case, time and time again

he is just another passerby.


of course there is no harm

in taking advantage of a free show

in tompkins square park

he’s only people watching

right?


i wonder

if he thinks

her yoga is a show she puts on 

for him 

that she careful selects her cutest outfits

for him

that she was perhaps made by god?

for him


but sir, our asses are not for you to look at

our pussies are not for sale

no, not for you. or you, or you 

our routines are not a show you can purchase tickets for

wait in line for, just to play your cards and make a move

and suddenly, she’ll want you too?


no, you didn’t even approach her

speak to her like a human being

instead, you monitored her like a rising 

peking duck awaiting the soy sauce sugared skin to caramelize


no sir, i’m so sorry to tell you

she’s not for you 

and neither is she, nor her, or me


a heat begins to rise in me

fills to a brim so high, it just about spills over

oh no, it might explode

a mountain of emotions: is that anger, frustration, fear?

a ball of salt water nestles behind my esophagus, waiting its turn to emerge


why do i stop it?

is it because it’s daytime, and i’m in public?

unstoppable force dribbles a river down my face

i trace my fingers on slivers of dreary yellow


a bottle cap rests on a tuft of blades 

i tap my foot off-beat, to a song that isn’t playing, on a week-old cigarette 


and he, who is buried in the depths of the black hole of my mind, begins to appear again

he, who tried to pay me for sex inside a closed hotel door i didn’t want him in

he, who followed me home from a walmart for two miles 

under a shadowed highway bridge alongside honking horns who served my escorts

he, who said he wanted to make a new friend

in a language and culture familiar enough, but distant from mine

he, who stayed just a bit too long

his hand, lingering on my thigh a bit too high


and he, who was stroking himself inside a worn hoodie

eyes glued to mine

up and down, up and down

the movement as reliable as the c train i was on

i could only focus on the bouncing vibration of the tracks beneath me 

“what would living in new york be if you’ve never experienced subway masturbation?” 

my friends would laugh


and he, who grazed my ass ever so gently, in an aisle full of neon pothos

so light was his touch, i thought i had bumped him.

i said “sorry.” why the hell did i say sorry? 

it wasn’t until the second time when he came to do his rounds

i froze 

listened carefully to his footsteps reproaching

one mississippi, two mississippi, three mississippi, four

like the thunder after lightning that you trust, to tell you how scared you should be,

even if it doesn’t change a thing

“did he just touch your ass too?” i ask kristine 

“yes.” 


we stood in silence

like i stand in silence now

at tompkins square park


i sit 

and turn back toward my book once again

try to decipher the words on the page

i cannot focus

i cannot focus on my studies 

a tuition that is ringing me dry

and i have class in an hour


i take a deep breath and let it go

i feel the weight now, suffocating me into a calmness

because i know i’ll forget this soon

tuck it away deep in that black hole, a file marked “do not open, unless you’ve had too many glasses of pinot” 


until it happens again, and i might be reminded

of this thursday 

in tompkins square park